The Journal

Neuroscience, psychology, identity, and the unfiltered truth about human desire — explored through essays, research reflections, and literary commentary.

The Biology of Desire: Why Attraction Never Ages

Deep in the limbic system, the architecture of longing remains unchanged across the decades. A scientific exploration of why desire is as natural in the seventh decade as it is in the third — and what this means for how we understand human connection.

November 12, 2026

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Essays on love, connection, and the enduring power of human relationships.

Sometimes the Life You Want Is Waiting on the Other Side of Courage

Courage is often misunderstood. Most people imagine courage as something dramatic. A heroic act. A life-changing decision made in a single unforgettable moment. We celebrate the courage to climb mountains, start businesses, or survive impossible circumstances.

Cat Doesn’t Break the Rules. She Ignores Them Entirely

Some characters become memorable because of what they do. Others stay with readers because of who they refuse to become.

The Lives We Settle For Versus the Lives We Secretly Want

There is a quiet moment that arrives in almost every person's life.

The Most Unforgettable Character in Sex in Our 70s Isn’t Who You Think

When readers pick up Sheldon A. Louis's Sex in Our 70s, they usually expect to fall in love with one of its two unforgettable protagonists.

The Surprising Role Humor Plays in Rekindling Passion Later in Life

When people imagine a passionate love story, they rarely imagine laughter playing a role. Passion is supposed to be intense. Seductive. Dramatic. Humor, on the other hand, is often treated as something separate, something that belongs to friendship

She Was in Control. He Was Undone. Neither of Them Expected to Feel This Free.

What happens when two people stop pretending? Not to the world. To themselves. For most of their lives, Ben and Cat lived the lives they believed they were supposed to live.
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